Family Relationships
“Kinship names” (father, brother, aunt, cousin, etc.) should be lowercased when used generically or when preceded by a modifier. Examples:
* my dad
* the youngest mother in the group
* her aunt Shelly
When used in place of the name, kinship names are to be capitalized. Examples:
* I know that Mother’s middle name is Janice.
* Does Aunt Becky have a book signing on Saturday?
* Will her Uncle Ed be at the birthday party?
* Hey, Dad, are we going fishing today?
Terms of Endearment
Terms of affection—aka “pet names” (honey, dear, sweetheart)—are lowercased … although some book publishers (mainly publishers of romance novels) have a house preference of capitalizing them.
Kathy Ide is a published author, ghostwriter, and freelance editor. She speaks at writers’ conferences, teaches online writing and editing courses, and mentors new writers. She’s the founder and coordinator of The Christian PEN: Proofreaders and Editors Network (www.TheChristianPEN.com) and the Christian Editor Network (www.ChristianEditor.com). Learn more at www.KathyIde.com.
Terms of affection—aka “pet names” (honey, dear, sweetheart)—are lowercased … although some book publishers (mainly publishers of romance novels) have a house preference of capitalizing them.
Kathy Ide is a published author, ghostwriter, and freelance editor. She speaks at writers’ conferences, teaches online writing and editing courses, and mentors new writers. She’s the founder and coordinator of The Christian PEN: Proofreaders and Editors Network (www.TheChristianPEN.com) and the Christian Editor Network (www.ChristianEditor.com). Learn more at www.KathyIde.com.
Thanks for sharing these, Kathy!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Kathy. What about this one? "No, son, we'll go to the lake house on Saturday but not today." Capitalize "son"?
ReplyDeleteJust had a question re: "aunt Shelly" and "her Uncle Ed..."
ReplyDeleteI don't see the distinction in capitalizing Uncle vs. not capitalizing aunt.
Please advise. Thanks!
Aunt Shelly: It's possessive--her aunt Shelly. It's as if we wrote, Her aunt, whose name is Shelly. I hope that's clearer.
ReplyDeleteVery useful notes
ReplyDeletethanks for sharing
good to be here
expecting more such
informative notes
Keep inform
Best Regards
Phil
PS
Pl. take out the word verification, it irritate your readers.
thanks